Ugh my venting post...So I learn something everyday as a parent and by no means am I the best, But if 1 thing I have learned since Brooklyn--is to choose my battles!!! I was that person who was like "I cant believe they let their kid leave the house dressed like that" or "why is that kid not matching" and so on...we B has taught me why--Why fight the battle!!! I have also learned that with all the kids in the past few years--Don't sweat the little stuff, save the fight for things that are worth the fight!!!
BUT Ian has NOT learned this yet, and trying to teach him is like potty training a toddler who isn't ready--IMPOSSIBLE!! (Now dont get me wrong he is a great dad!!) So on his weekends off he is on the kids over everything and doesn't stop--ugh drives me nuts!! It is summer vacation--if we want to stay up till 11 and sleep till 10 WE WILL!! So he works nights and sleeps in late on his work days...So I have had a routine with all the kids for over 2 years now--and he ALWAYS comes in a freaks out and messes it up. I don't think the kids HAVE to do chores ALL DAY LONG--we do them in the morning and then we relax inside if it is hot, swim, play and so on...BUT no when dad is home he is up their butts all day with chores and so on....this all coming from the "man" who doesn't get anything done for me unless I freak out on him or start it myself.....
UGH so yes this was his weekend off and by the end of the weekend all the kids hate him (not really figure of speech) So he is back to work tomorrow and the kids and I can go back to our " normal" routine! Then when you throw Q into the equation who is tired (who HAS to have 10-12 hr of sleep) it gets ugly cause Q gets poopy then dad gets mad and more poopy so then MOM has to yell at both of them--(my work is never done--hahah)
Parenting is hard, a whole trial and error thing, so I try to teach him--Is it worth the fight or is it just a small issue.......but he doesnt get it yet..someday!!!
But really what we all need to learn is to be thankful we had another day to argue, fight, laugh, ccry and laugh some more with all of these kids we have!!!